One sure option is flexi hours but parenting still stays a full time job. Weekends are the best time to bond and just be yourself. The minute chores of doing the laundry, attending to the demands of the older child and other social engagements may sap your energy but mild adjustments are necessary to enjoy life to the fullest. It takes almost a month to adjust to the new routine and if conditioned children adjust easily.

Having a dependable care giver solves most of the problem. Find someone to supervise the new care giver so that the child’s care is not compromised. Take help from your spouse or rather split up jobs so that there is less stress on yourself. A mother’s job is never done in a day. Nursing too is a devoted effort but thankfully breast pumps make the job easy. Try brunches on weekends and use simple meals to save time.

New moms must always upkeep their self esteem and physical appearance. Joining a gym will require time management but just go for a walk in the mornings. Schedule half an hour to yoga and learn the right way to mediate. Positive affirmations are a healing experience. Physical energy needs to be built but at the same time it is important to stay cool. Extra chores, children’s illnesses and personal agendas need multi tasking. But the truth is all moms do it excellently.

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The point here is that this whirlpool of thoughts can infuse a certain level of confusion and illusion of ideas within your child’s mind. It’s essential that you as a parent inspire your child to dream with a sense of individuality and self-esteem minus the overwhelming behavior for a specific idea or object. Your children require to realize that the ideas and objects are separate from their own existence and thus, they are unique individuals.

A deep sense of attachment to an idea or an object can create numerous problems within your child’s life. Not only that, such an attachment create problems for others. And moreover, it inspires your child to behave madly and weird.

To sum up, Achievement is a reward for hard work and smart work. But it is essential for your child to achieve whatever they desire through their wisdom, stability, focus and faith. Inspire your children to get wiser! Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

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If you are thinking that every child is not the same in potential, I strongly believe that you require to think again. I beleive every child has equal potential in them. It’s just a matter that the child starts believing in the potential they have within themselves.

Comparing two siblings or even your child with his/her friends can lead your child to depression and even lot of tensions within their mind. Your child will be locked in a muddy-mushhy-pond and the more you will compare your child, the more you will count him/her as part of the not-so-authentic group of childen.

Your child is unique and his/her uniqueness cannot be compared in any way with any other child or even his/her brother/sister. Believe your child can do what it wants to and your child will succeed surprisingly.

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It is human nature that everyone loves to be appreciated and nurtured with love, care & affection. Children as a matter of fact get influenced faster than adults. They are really quick at grasping words, actions, habits, etc. If they are appreciated rightly at a very young age to make a mark of their own in the whole world, they can emerge as ‘revolutionaries’ or even as legendary personalities.

Now, the point is: What is the right way to build a child’s motivation system?

A child, when small, is finding him/her self lost in the crystal maze and is trying to find answers to questions that ‘seem’ to have no answer. A child requires a guide and there can be no better person than a well-educated parent to guide their children. The right way to build a child’s motivational system is to make him/her feel loved.

While you are asking your child to build a value system for him/her self, it is essential that you appreciate their efforts while they follow and apply every single part of their value system. This way, you are building a natural motivational system for your child.

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Dictionary.com defines self-esteem as “A realistic respect for or favorable impression of oneself; self-respect.”

Teach your child the following to build Positive Self-Esteem:

• Develop Healthy Behavior: Children are innocent. They do not know what is good or bad, right or wrong, harmful or harmless. They require someone who will guide them to develop a healthy behavior which will enable them to live a self-dependent and independent life. A healthy behavior would mean that the child acts with a complete sense of who they are and what they must do to remain happy all their life. Developing such a healthy behavior would be necessary for a parent to enable their children to become successful in all aspects of life.
  

• To Develop Strong Mental, Physical, Spiritual and Social Health: When a child is young; he must be educated, trained and made completely aware of developing his ‘health’. If a child understands the benefits of developing a good health during childhood would mean that the child will live a long and healthy life. Health just not relates to keeping your body fit but also your mind, soul and your relationships ‘healthy’ and a child must be made very much aware about it when they are in kindergarten or in primary school. Health develops self-esteem.
  

• Freedom: Freedom is always essential for your child to freely make mistakes and even resolve them quickly. It gives them the space to initiate an experiment and find a specific result. Children should not be taught limited beliefs that bind them into taking incomplete responsibility for their actions. Freedom is essential to make your children self-responsible and creative. Freedom develops self-esteem.

• Express Fully and Openly: When children are small, they tend to be scared easily. Many of them are even shy to talk openly about what they feel because they fear a lot. This creates a communication gap between a child and a parent, specially if they are regular at daycares. It is the parent’s responsibility to see that their child is not scared of talking even in front of a huge audience. Until the child learns to share whats their on his/her mind and heart, the child will never be able to discover their self-worth, their self esteem. Give them some quality time and space dedicated to them every day and you will get very good results over a period of time. Complete expression develops strength and self-esteem in a child.

• Rules, not limits: Set rules for your children, not limits. Limiting your child to prohibit them from acting in a certain way will only backfire your decision by time. Children must be taught why these rules are made and what benefit it entails rather than scare them to discourage a certain action. This way, children learn to develop a relationship with their own self.
  

• How to Communicate Effectively: Children must be taught to communicate sharply and smartly at a very young age. Children must be made very ‘receptive’ in order for them to become very good communicators. A habit must be inculcated within of keeping their ears open while the other person is speaking. Good communicators are very good presenters. The ones who are good presenters have a very good self-esteem.
  

• Positive Thinking and Positive Beliefs: Teaching your children positive beliefs, that demystify the illusion within them, can help your child grow very fast and smartly. If a parent takes conscious effort to teach their children the art of thinking ‘positively’, a child will never ever suffer from hard shocks, rude failures and low self-esteem.

• En – courage – ment: Encouragement simply means to enable courage within a person to live life completely and fearlessly. Children must be ‘en – couraged’ in order to make them brave and courageous. If a child plays a game like a master, tell them they can do it because they have the complete potential in them to master anything at hand rather than telling them that they are just good at the game. Acknowledge the child rather than their efforts.

• Develop Leadership Skills: Finally, a child must be made strong enough to develop leadership skills and qualities within them. After all, the child must be able to lead himself and the world in the right direction without any hesitation or doubt rather than the world leading him.

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