Now, it might be that you as a mother would be keeping busy all day long with all the house work. Sometimes, you might wish to escape the chaos of cooking meals for your family as the work might be burdensome for you. Children would be asking you to cook some tasty delicious food every other day and you would like to have some time off for yourself. However, you would not be able to take some time off for your self as you would be having children to look after. Even you would want to have a healthy life for yourself while parenting your children to have a healthy life for themselves. So, how do you find time for your self and even do all the chores without much trouble?

Here is a solution:

Keep a list of Indian recipes that you think would be quick enough to cook effortlessly. Certain recipes can be very quick enough to cook.

You can even choose to cook recipes that do not require too much time to look after it while it’s on the burner or in the oven/fridge.

If you have older children, then you can show them how to cook certain recipes without taking your help.

Have a variety of recipes in your lists as cooking the same food over and over again could attract irritation from your children.

You can even keep half-baked food for dinner while cooking lunch in the morning.

Make a note of whats healthy for your children and what’s not. Also make a note of what your children like and what they don’t.

One thing has to be noted. If you want your children to stay healthy, you must only cook food that nourishes your child completely. Cooking fast food all the time cannot be a good idea all the time as fast food cannot enable your child to stay healthy all the time. Its better to have a variety of foods.

Finally, the moral is cook healthy food with healthy emotions as well as stay healthy all the time by giving some time to your own health as well. Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

Life is Easy. Take it Easy.

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It is definitely due lack of awareness of these ideas along with fear of being beaten up leads to children lying habitually.

The purpose of lying habitually may, in case, be due to a certain repetitive want or fulfillment of desire.

Firstly, a parent should love their child so much that the child knows their parents love them.

Secondly, a parent must keep a watch their child is doing all the time. This will keep them in check.

Thirdly, a parent must set rules. One rule should be of maintaining honesty and discipline.

Fourthly, a parent should maintain a balance between ‘too much love’ and love.

Here are some reasons why:

Being Possesive is a very unacceptable situation for both, the parent and the child.

Being Possesive is not confidence in the child but shows a lot o fear that leads to a parent being posseisive and strict. This strictness leads to fear in a child due to which the child might form a habit of lying habitually.

Love is more realistic as it keeps a parent with the contention in mind that their child will keep faith in their love. True love lets the parent see the reality, face it without fear and removes the fear of being punished from the child’s mind.

Instead, it instills faith in the relationship between the parent and the child which is more important.

Frequent communication between the parent and child can be the key here.

Be An Inspiring Parent!

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The first and the foremost thing is that junk foods are the main cause of the promotion of obesity. It is because of the excessive use of certain types of junk foods that you can find a lot of children fighting with obesity. Obesity, certainly, is a threat to your child’s health and it can really stop your child to get involved in some sports or other healthy activities. The situation can get worse when children also go for some sugary drinks which, unfortunately, are quite common these days. Junk food can also cause lack of concentration, heart diseases and high cholesterol. 

The first thing that inspires children to go for specific junk food is the exposure to media through television. Television is the protagonist in this scenario, so, parents must keep a watchful eye as what their children see on Television. It is because of this reason that the people in most of the countries are now demanding a complete ban on propagation of these junk foods on television, at least before 9pm. However, being the parents, you must try to inspire your kid to go outside and play with his friends and get involved in some constructive or sporting activities as it is as important as their studies are. A healthy body will give a healthy mind which will help children to grow and to judge the disparity between right and wrong. Once they will achieve that, you will be considered to be successful as this is what good parenting is all about. 

Apparently, all of these things are so obvious, yet so effective and it’s such a pity that most of the people don’t pay much attention to these facts and let their children to fall prey to the vicious clamp of junk foods.

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However, there are certain children who refuse to have nutritious foods such as milk, cereal, fruits, toasts, etc during breakfast time. Many even refuse to have the entire breakfasts for a variety of reason’s. Some children don’t like to have food as early in the morning and some don’t like the choices available at the breakfast table in the morning.

Children really don’t realize why a breakfast is necessary and you might have to coax them a lot to have breakfasts everyday. If that is the case with your child, here are a few pointers:

• Try to know what your child really likes to have, what are their dislikes. Let them have choices and favorite foods in their breakfasts.

 

• Most children love chocolate with milk. If your children does not drink milk, you could even offer to add chocolate or chocolate powders to it. there are variety of them available. You could also add fruit syrups or fruit shakes instead of choco-shakes in the morning.

 

• Add some fruit to the breakfast every morning. Keep changing the fruits available for breakfasts every morning.

 

• Let them know why they must do breakfasts. Explain that their bones require calcium, their mind requires strength and they require to become strong.

 

• If your child resists eating breakfasts, tell them they would not be getting certain privileges that they get during the day if they don’t duly eat their breakfasts on time.

 

• Be logical. Children are smart to point out your mistakes quickly and efficiently. Do not get hyper or anxious just because your child does not listen to you.Be cool and calm while you’re asking them to have their breakfasts.

 

• Keep affirming to them “You will get stronger my boy if you eat breakfasts. Only stronger and smart children have breakfasts.”

 

• Create a lists of items that you can have in breakfasts and keep adding as many items in that lists as you can.

 

Good Parenting is all about getting your children to stay fit, healthy, wealthy and sane. Convince your children about eating breakfasts regularly so as to make them strong and healthy. Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

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The point here is that this whirlpool of thoughts can infuse a certain level of confusion and illusion of ideas within your child’s mind. It’s essential that you as a parent inspire your child to dream with a sense of individuality and self-esteem minus the overwhelming behavior for a specific idea or object. Your children require to realize that the ideas and objects are separate from their own existence and thus, they are unique individuals.

A deep sense of attachment to an idea or an object can create numerous problems within your child’s life. Not only that, such an attachment create problems for others. And moreover, it inspires your child to behave madly and weird.

To sum up, Achievement is a reward for hard work and smart work. But it is essential for your child to achieve whatever they desire through their wisdom, stability, focus and faith. Inspire your children to get wiser! Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

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Even after repeating the same instructions over and over again, they might fail to obey what you have said. The reason behind this is their short memory. Be patient with your toddler and you will be able to handle the situation effortlessly after a period of time. Your yelling, slaps or shouts can go against you and your child will feel harmed.

Its better to practically show them what has to be done rather than just instruct them with a rule. Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

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However, certain children are abnormally hyperactive and their parents have to keep a watch at what they are up to every now and then. This can get troublesome as parents have a lot of other responsibilities to complete during the day. A child’s hyper-activeness can be a cause of parents especially for those who have not diagnosed their child to check whether they have any disorder/difficulty.

Here are some questions that you must answer after accurately observing your child’s behavior.

Does your child have difficulty in focusing at one activity? Does your child show a lot of dis-attentiveness towards completing a certain task in hand? Does your child resists to sit still at one place? Does your child keeps fidgeting, jumping, running or doing any other activity constantly? Does your child do things without taking a precaution or thinking before doing it? Does your child remains hyperactive while performing all activities irrespective of the type of activity whether games, academics or hobbies? Does your child have learning difficulties or a swift change in moods?

If your answer to all of the above is a YES, then your child is suffering from what is known as “Attention Deficit Hyperactive Syndrome”. What you must do is talk to a children’s counselor who may advise you to take your child to a specialized doctor for diagnosis.

If in case, you have realized that your child indeed suffers from the disorder, do not get shocked. Just be calm with your self as well as your child and resolve the situation. Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

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There is much more at stake. Competition is another big factor. They just do not have to beat their peers but they have to beat the competition. The chances of getting into a good stream or college makes them even more nervous. So, what should you as a parent do?

Well… Just teach them how to handle failures.

Tell them that failures are not at all blocks because failures can never stop you from living your life. It is a matter of simply believing in your ability that decides the path of success or failure.

Even a big failure can never stop a person from moving ahead. You can fail en number of times but after failing, you must get up to become a winner. That is the way life should be. It’s not a crime to fail but it’s a great achievement to succeed after one has failed.

Show them real life examples of people who have been huge failures and have become huge successes by overcoming their failures.

Make them aware that fear of failures can just lead them to fail more and more. It’s better always to completely accept failures and let them go, not hold on to them. “If you fail, it’s okay. Just move on and learn from your failures.”

Remove the fear of failure from your children by telling your children that you will not scold them if they fail in exams. Tell them you love them very much and they must not feel let down if they fail in exams as it is certainly not the end of the road.

Tell them the good qualities and the talents / skills that they possess. This will calm them down mentally and keep them stable as well as confident of their capabilities and potential.

Always tell them that they can do it rather than discouraging them by saying “you’re useless”.

Tell them you’re always available to help them out anytime whatsoever the case.

Be A Good Parent Today And Stay Calm During Your child’s Exams’. Keep A Big Smile On Your Face To Cheer your Child During Exams! Happy Parenting!

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So, here comes the trouble.. fights, screams and shouts between siblings and you will have to take care of all that. But what if you just make them feel equally loved and cared? In that case, you will have to be there with your elder children even when you are with your younger children. Now, that’s something you will have to do to let your children know that all of them are equal to you and you love them as much as you love your other children.

Remember, children seek equal attention, understanding and importance. That’s what they call love in their own terms. If you have something to give to each of them, it’s better you give them in equal intensities and similar things to each of them. That way you can avoid conflicts and screams of partiality. If you find both of them fighting between themselves, “don’t blame anyone”. Just make the child who is responsible for the mistake know and realize their mistake by discussing it in a calm and cool manner when there is no one around except you & your child, not even his/her sibling. Blaming anyone of them will create distance between the two which will further create more differences and conflicts. Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

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Children are often unaware when they make mistakes but as they grow, they learn. And they learn a lot of things. Some lead them to the good path and some to the bad one. Still, children at most times cannot figure out what’s okay and what’s not okay. Now, as a parent you need to figure out what your child thinks, feels, does and “believes” so that you can better guide them what’s okay and what’s not. There is always a level of introspection to be developed between you and your child.

And the way to develop a level of introspection between you and your child is for you to strengthen your interpretation skills. You must learn to interpret feelings, actions, decisions, likings, choices and thinking with complete accuracy doubtlessly. You will be easily able to figure what’s got to be done if you can figure out what wrong. After all, interpretation skills is all about figuring out the truth. Go ahead! Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

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